{"id":341,"date":"2008-10-17T16:57:00","date_gmt":"2008-10-17T20:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=341"},"modified":"2008-10-17T16:57:00","modified_gmt":"2008-10-17T20:57:00","slug":"strumming-to-his-own-beat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=341","title":{"rendered":"Strumming to His Own Beat!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_ESvCH9ghcAI\/SPkRU6DpkCI\/AAAAAAAAAw0\/-NnKxtZG9xc\/s1600-h\/DSC_0002.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_ESvCH9ghcAI\/SPkRU6DpkCI\/AAAAAAAAAw0\/-NnKxtZG9xc\/s400\/DSC_0002.JPG\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\"id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5258253090811383842\" \/><\/a><br \/>I have worried about my son, Jordan, for many years.  For the most part the word quirky describes him.  The characteristics of a true middle child.   He was a child I had trouble relating too.<\/p>\n<p>He is 10 and a half and growing up.  And thankfully he is growing into a wonderful child&#8230; yet totally his own person.  He is alot  like Sanj, though Sanj may not see it.  They even look alike.<\/p>\n<p>What used to frustrated me most was his lack of interest in anything.  He is bright and things come easy to him.  But he did not put effort into things&#8230; school or extracurricular activities.  <\/p>\n<p>Finally he showed an interest in the guitar.  This is a popular instrument with kids right now&#8230; and cool.  Probably thanks to games like Guitar Hero or Rock Band.<\/p>\n<p>So &#8230; this summer we let him take guitar lessons.  YES!!!    He has come alive.   He walks around strumming the guitar constantly.<br \/>He is even practicing a song to play on Remembrance Day at school with a group of kids!!!<\/p>\n<p>I am so proud of him.  He is coming into his own self.  He is taking more of an interest in putting his better effort in hockey and even school.<\/p>\n<p>He used to avoid contact&#8230; but today he actually came and gave me a REAL hug and said &#8220;I love you.&#8221;  So cool and so special.<\/p>\n<p>It is easy to love the child that is like you or just easier.  It is a huge gift to love a child that is out of the box!!!  It isn&#8217;t a bad thing to be out of the  box.  I would say I am out of the box.   Why be ordinary?<\/p>\n<p>So to my child that is smack in the middle of our family&#8230; you are so special and unique.  Never apologies for your uniqueness but rather embrace them and be proud of them.<\/p>\n<p>But if you could be a little more cooperative at times&#8230; and be in the  box once in a while&#8230; that would be cool too! <br \/>I love you, Jordan!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have worried about my son, Jordan, for many years. For the most part the word quirky describes him. The characteristics of a true middle child. He was a child I had trouble relating too. He is 10 and a &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=341\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/341"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=341"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/341\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=341"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=341"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=341"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}