{"id":4292,"date":"2017-05-04T11:52:39","date_gmt":"2017-05-04T15:52:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=4292"},"modified":"2017-05-04T11:59:38","modified_gmt":"2017-05-04T15:59:38","slug":"walk-a-mile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=4292","title":{"rendered":"Walk A Mile&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">This morning I woke up extremely exhausted and disturbed.\u00a0 I was dreaming of my dad being physically abusive to us and trying to figure out a way to escape his craziness.\u00a0 My dad has passed on in September and I found a lot of peace for him and myself.\u00a0 I have spent so many years trying to figure it out and find peace&#8230; and truth be told, sometimes I feel like God allowed my dad to live these years past to give me time to find what I needed.\u00a0 Ultimately I found a peace that really does pass all understanding and God always has my back.\u00a0 And yet, though I have found peace, the memories still continue to haunt.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Why am I writing&#8230;\u00a0\u00a0 there is FINALLY awareness about abuse.\u00a0 It is not a hidden secret that abuse happens still, it&#8217;s a frightening thing for those involved and how to get help or escape takes a LOT of courage. <a href=\"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?attachment_id=4293\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4293\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4293\" src=\"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/walk-a-mile.jpg\" alt=\"walk a mile\" width=\"253\" height=\"246\" \/><\/a>I just love this event!\u00a0 I love the fun that comes with raising awareness to this ugliness of abuse.\u00a0 I love seeing these men walk in high heels a\u00a0 mile!!!\u00a0 There&#8217;s a lot of\u00a0 craziness in this world.\u00a0 Yet events like this give hope that there is goodness, love and willingness to help.\u00a0 I copied the rest of this post from the website<strong><em>\u00a0 Put Yourself in Her Shoes <\/em><\/strong>website.\u00a0 This is something that seems to be happening in many communities.\u00a0 Please consider being a part of it as there are various ways to participate and make a difference.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style191\"><strong><span class=\"style43\">Put Yourself in Her Shoes\u2122<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style191\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><span class=\"style44\">Each year, an ever-increasing number of men, women and their families are joining the <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/walkamileinhershoes.org\/About\/awards.html\"><span class=\"style44\">award-winning<\/span><\/a><span class=\"style44\"> Walk a Mile in Her Shoes\u00ae: The International Men&#8217;s March to Stop Rape, Sexual Assault &amp; Gender Violence. A Walk a Mile in Her Shoes\u00ae Event is a <\/span><span class=\"style13\">playful<\/span><span class=\"style44\"> opportunity for men to raise awareness in their community about the serious causes, effects and remediations to men&#8217;s sexualized violence against women.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style191\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><span class=\"style40\">First You Walk the Walk<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style191\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>There is an old saying: &#8220;You can&#8217;t really understand another person&#8217;s experience until you&#8217;ve walked a mile in their shoes.&#8221; Walk a Mile in Her Shoes\u00ae asks men to literally walk one mile in women&#8217;s high-heeled shoes. It&#8217;s not easy walking in these shoes, but it&#8217;s fun and it gets the community to talk about something that&#8217;s really difficult to talk about: gender relations and men&#8217;s sexualized violence against women.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style187\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Then You Talk the Talk<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style191 f-lp\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>It&#8217;s critical to open communication about sexualized violence. While hidden away, sexualized violence is immune to cure. Unfortunately, it&#8217;s difficult to get people talking. People unfamiliar with men&#8217;s sexualized violence against women don&#8217;t want to know it exists. It&#8217;s ugly. People that have experienced sexualized violence themselves want to forget about it. How do you get people talking now, so they can prevent it from happening? And if it&#8217;s already happened, how do you help them recover.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I woke up extremely exhausted and disturbed.\u00a0 I was dreaming of my dad being physically abusive to us and trying to figure out a way to escape his craziness.\u00a0 My dad has passed on in September and I &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=4292\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[189,28,6,1,13,140,15,5,11,55],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4292"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4292"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4292\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4296,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4292\/revisions\/4296"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4292"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4292"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}