{"id":455,"date":"2009-01-03T12:43:00","date_gmt":"2009-01-03T17:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=455"},"modified":"2009-01-03T12:43:00","modified_gmt":"2009-01-03T17:43:00","slug":"can-i-ask-you-a-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=455","title":{"rendered":"Can I Ask You a Question?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_ESvCH9ghcAI\/SV-lbbTaslI\/AAAAAAAABLw\/vw2WoiWba2U\/s1600-h\/1109_100_100.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 100px; height: 100px;\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_ESvCH9ghcAI\/SV-lbbTaslI\/AAAAAAAABLw\/vw2WoiWba2U\/s200\/1109_100_100.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\"id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287126378160501330\" \/><\/a><br \/>I got an email from  a friend the other day and she ended with this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p> &#8220;Well, I am getting tired&#8230;.time to head to bed.  Just finished watching an episode of Sex in the City.  Interesting question was posed&#8230;..&#8217;Can you forgive, when you can&#8217;t forget?&#8217; &#8221;  <\/p>\n<p>It is just a simple email&#8230; but that question has really had me thinking.  <span style=\"font-weight:bold;\">Can you forgive, when you can&#8217;t forget?&#8221;    <br \/> <\/span><\/p>\n<p>Then different situations flash through my head&#8230; some from a lifetime ago&#8230; some big  and some small.<\/p>\n<p>Can you forgive when forgiveness hasn&#8217;t been asked for?<\/p>\n<p>I would think that big hurts&#8230; are the ones you never forget.  Yet can you REALLY forgive if it is not forgotten?<br \/>I would have to say it would depend on the hurt.  I would have to say yes.  <\/p>\n<p>And here I thought <span style=\"font-weight:bold;\">Sex In the City<span style=\"font-style:italic;\"><\/span><\/span> was just about shoes and sex!  Who would have thought?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I got an email from a friend the other day and she ended with this&#8230; &#8220;Well, I am getting tired&#8230;.time to head to bed. Just finished watching an episode of Sex in the City. Interesting question was posed&#8230;..&#8217;Can you forgive, &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=455\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/455"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=455"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/455\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=455"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=455"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=455"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}