{"id":634,"date":"2009-07-28T07:16:00","date_gmt":"2009-07-28T11:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=634"},"modified":"2009-07-28T07:16:00","modified_gmt":"2009-07-28T11:16:00","slug":"the-trip-of-a-lifetime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=634","title":{"rendered":"The Trip of a Lifetime&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_ESvCH9ghcAI\/Sm7utPkNIiI\/AAAAAAAACNw\/vxmWFCeg4F4\/s1600-h\/GetAttachment.aspx.jpeg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 298px; height: 400px;\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_ESvCH9ghcAI\/Sm7utPkNIiI\/AAAAAAAACNw\/vxmWFCeg4F4\/s400\/GetAttachment.aspx.jpeg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\"id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363486667284750882\" \/><\/a><br \/>I was born in India.  I sometimes forget that.  What I mean by that is I am so American\/Canadian that I sometimes forget  that I am different from those around me.  Color is only skin deep.  Some people truly don&#8217;t see color&#8230; yet most do. It is always there&#8230; the differences&#8230; that awareness comes out with little comments.  Comments that are not meant to be hurtful or offensive but yet still point out that there is a difference.<\/p>\n<p>I was thinking of my parents and what they have lived through.  Sometimes I forget&#8230; they had a whole life in India.  They left that life to seek a new and maybe different life.  I can&#8217;t image what it was like for them to move to a new country and have to learn life over again with a totally different owner&#8217;s manuel.<\/p>\n<p>I get annoyed at their corks because for me being here is all I know.  Yet for them it is and has been a learned skill set. <br \/>I can have this life as I know it simply because they gave me this life as I know today.  <\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t even imagine what it must have been like coming to Canada in the early 70s, leaving behind all their family and friends.<br \/>I wonder what it must have been like especially for my mom.  My dad was not her dream husband, so she was all alone emotionally too.<\/p>\n<p>It must have taken such strength to take on that adventure of a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>So many things were new and strange.  My mom tells of how my dad and her saw a sign saying pants&#8230; 99 cents.  They were quite excited.  As they went into the &#8220;store&#8221; they were to discover the Dry-cleaners! <\/p>\n<p>As I live life as only I have known, I have to stop and realize the sacrifices that my parents made so that I do enjoy life as I know it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was born in India. I sometimes forget that. What I mean by that is I am so American\/Canadian that I sometimes forget that I am different from those around me. Color is only skin deep. Some people truly don&#8217;t &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=634\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/634"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=634"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/634\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=634"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=634"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=634"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}