{"id":651,"date":"2009-08-07T20:22:00","date_gmt":"2009-08-08T00:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=651"},"modified":"2009-08-07T20:22:00","modified_gmt":"2009-08-08T00:22:00","slug":"wrestling-a-love-language","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=651","title":{"rendered":"Wrestling … A Love Language?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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How do you handle the wrestling which turns into fights?<\/span><\/p>\n

This is what one of my friends asked on her facebook status…<\/p>\n

I responded… “its constant. It’s worse when Sanj is in there tussling too. All I am worried about is a broken arm… or foot.
I do what all do I suppose… warning them to be careful which I know fall on deaf ears!<\/p>\n

When it turns into crying and fighting… as it always will… I just deal with the one that got hurt and say enough. I really don’t have a good answer except that it is part of growing up a boy. You just have to kiss the boo boo away. No help, I know!<\/p>\n

And they have to expend that energy. I suppose it is just so natural to use each other to spend that energy.
But I am just a girl, so what do I know?”<\/span><\/p>\n

That was my immediate answer. But I really don’t have an answer… so feel free to add your input.<\/p>\n

But tonight I drove into town to pick up my two oldest from playing a game of golf with another set of brothers.
They had a great game and a great time. They were both in good spirits. They were bantering back and forth. I was waiting for the banter to turn ugly.<\/p>\n

Yet they seemed to be in total sync. <\/p>\n

These are two of mine that wrestle all the time. They are very physical. It is a constant rumble and tumble that usually ends with someone hurt or in tears.<\/p>\n

Sammy: You look like a dork. You have chocolate on your face. ( They just had ice cream).
Tyler: (Giggling…) I have a whole meal, including appetizers and dessert under my wire (of his braces).<\/p>\n

I am grossed out, of course. They are dying of laughter.<\/p>\n

I am total enthralled. They seem to like<\/span> each other at this moment in time.<\/p>\n

As I am observing this, I think, O.K. may that wrestling and beating each other up is actually a love language?!!!<\/p>\n

Maybe it is a language that some brothers share. O.K. Maybe?!!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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