{"id":958,"date":"2010-05-03T14:30:00","date_gmt":"2010-05-03T18:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=958"},"modified":"2010-05-03T14:30:00","modified_gmt":"2010-05-03T18:30:00","slug":"oh-husband-where-are-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=958","title":{"rendered":"Oh Husband, Where Are You???"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Yesterday, after church, I asked Sanj to run to the store to pick up some construction paper that Sammy needed for a project. I was going to take all the boys home and begin lunch. After the boys and I had eaten lunch, I looked at the time. 1:30 p.m. I wasn’t really worried, as I figured that since Sanj was alone, he may have run into Home Depot or did an errand and probably saw someone and lost track of the time.<\/span><\/div>\n

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At 2:30 p.m. as I was laying down with Josh… I started to worry. I could see that Tyler and Zachary were getting anxious too. It had been 2 hours later. Sanj hates shopping so I could not imagine him wandering the stores. I begin to have visions of him in a car accident. I wondered what the first step would be to find him? I gave him 15 more minutes before I was going to call my brother-in-law… the cop. I know he would help me. Yet, knowing that everything was likely OK, I didn’t want to overact.<\/span><\/div>\n

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Just as I was getting ready to call Raj, I heard Sanj’s car pulling in. I was so mad. He didn’t have his cell phone with him. I could hear Tyler and Zachary scolding him. He makes his way upstairs, sheepishly. <\/span><\/div>\n

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Have you ever been so mad and relieved all at the same time? Phew! I wouldn’t have to sell the house or find an audiologist or look for caskets or understand or insurance policies. Yet, I still wanted to hurt him bad!<\/span><\/div>\n

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He had gone to the music store, it was closed. Then he went to the men’s store and got carried away chatting with the guy and buying a suit. Hum… He better look darn fine in that suit!!!<\/span><\/div>\n

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It is one of my biggest peeves about my husband. I hate that he never has his cell when he should or it isn’t charged or on!!! Grrr… <\/span><\/div>\n

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I also hate that he never worries about me. When I am off at night to a meeting or the movies, all the lights are off and he is sound and snoring! What if I was in an accident? He wouldn’t even know till he woke up at 5 a.m. Maybe I should stay out one night and not come home and let him actually have that moment of panic and wonder what life is going to be like as a single dad.<\/span><\/div>\n
Hum… I like that idea. Movie anyone? lol<\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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