{"id":159,"date":"2008-05-04T15:33:00","date_gmt":"2008-05-04T19:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=159"},"modified":"2008-05-04T15:33:00","modified_gmt":"2008-05-04T19:33:00","slug":"nice-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=159","title":{"rendered":"Nice People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_ESvCH9ghcAI\/SB4ikDlLSfI\/AAAAAAAAAM4\/OUkSKdMXPbM\/s1600-h\/photo.2008.03.group.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_ESvCH9ghcAI\/SB4ikDlLSfI\/AAAAAAAAAM4\/OUkSKdMXPbM\/s400\/photo.2008.03.group.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\"id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5196629022864001522\" \/><\/a><br \/>Part of the journey in my &#8220;metamorphosis&#8221; is defining people in my life.   <br \/>A) There is my family&#8230;. Sanj and my boys.<br \/>B)  There is my immediate family&#8230; my parents and brothers.  <br \/>C)  There is the real friends in my life that add and bless my world. (Here would be a great place to have an older mentor friend)<br \/>D)  NICE PEOPLE&#8230; these are the fluff people&#8230; the extras in a movie.<\/p>\n<p>My &#8220;homework&#8221; was to identify the NICE PEOPLE in my life and work on reducing their presence in my life.  I realized that there are many &#8230; and they are draining.  They take, ask too much, tell too much and really add nothing to me as a person.    People will tell me things on first meeting&#8230; way to much information&#8230; a &#8220;friend&#8221; told me that she had varicous veins in her vagina on first meeting!  DID I NEED TO KNOW THAT?<\/p>\n<p>It is about me learning to  set up boundries for myself and the people around me.    So this has been quite a discovery for me  and an even bigger one to really try to live by.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Part of the journey in my &#8220;metamorphosis&#8221; is defining people in my life. A) There is my family&#8230;. Sanj and my boys.B) There is my immediate family&#8230; my parents and brothers. C) There is the real friends in my life &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/?p=159\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=159"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/livinglovingbreathingboys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}