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Early this week, Sanj got a phone call from someone on one of the committees he is on.<\/p>\n

I am not sure what the purpose of the call was except that this woman went off on my husband.<\/div>\n
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Here’s the thing… it is plan and simple. Please don’t mess with my husband. I love him. Please treat him with respect. Please be kind. Please.<\/div>\n
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What the conversation was about is really pointless… this is a person that is always<\/i> right. This is a person that never makes mistakes. This is a person that lack any sort of people skills or confidence.<\/div>\n
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I was laying on the bed. Sanj was talking or rather listening. I could hear the volume of which she was speaking to him. My heart started to pound. I hate confrontation. She was being ugly.<\/div>\n
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I want to use other words here… but on the chance that 13 and under folks may read this I will refrain.<\/div>\n
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Sanj was surprisingly controlled. He raised his voice once. I couldn’t believe that someone would talk to another person that way. <\/div>\n
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I have very hostile feelings right now towards this person. I realize it isn’t Christlike… but I am human. How dare you speak to my husband that way? If she spoke to me that way I am pretty sure I would have had to slap her or pulled her hair.<\/div>\n
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Please don’t mess with the people I love. <\/div>\n
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Here is when I have to really believe that God is in control. <\/div>\n
I hate when I know something to be true yet can’t prove it. Or you have to be the bigger person and walk away. I hate “losing” if that is even the right word.<\/div>\n
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But time will tell. God is in control. Even when it doesn’t go my way. He is in control. He is teaching me something. <\/div>\n
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Probably pray for my enemies. I didn’t even know I had any enemies. But then you had to go and mess with my husband. I guess I’d better pray… harder.<\/div>\n
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