Part of the journey in my “metamorphosis” is defining people in my life.
A) There is my family…. Sanj and my boys.
B) There is my immediate family… my parents and brothers.
C) There is the real friends in my life that add and bless my world. (Here would be a great place to have an older mentor friend)
D) NICE PEOPLE… these are the fluff people… the extras in a movie.
My “homework” was to identify the NICE PEOPLE in my life and work on reducing their presence in my life. I realized that there are many … and they are draining. They take, ask too much, tell too much and really add nothing to me as a person. People will tell me things on first meeting… way to much information… a “friend” told me that she had varicous veins in her vagina on first meeting! DID I NEED TO KNOW THAT?
It is about me learning to set up boundries for myself and the people around me. So this has been quite a discovery for me and an even bigger one to really try to live by.